Summer break often means kids and dogs spend a lot more time together. That can be wonderful, with long afternoons of play and new tricks learned. It can also lead to overtired dogs, overexcited kids and the occasional misunderstanding. A few household rules help everyone enjoy the season.
Teach kids to read dog body language
Dogs communicate a lot before they ever growl or snap. Help children recognize signs that a dog wants space:
- Turning the head or body away.
- Licking lips or yawning when not tired.
- Showing the whites of the eyes.
- Tucking the tail or lowering the body.
- Freezing, stiffening or walking away.
Teach kids that when a dog does these things, it is time to stop and give the dog room. A growl is also communication, and it should be respected, not punished. Make it a family rule to let the dog walk away whenever they choose.
Household ground rules
- Leave the dog alone when they are eating, chewing or sleeping.
- No hugging, climbing on or riding the dog. Many dogs find hugs uncomfortable, even if they tolerate them.
- Gentle hands only: pet the chest or side rather than the top of the head.
- No chasing games where the dog is cornered, and no teasing with toys or food.
- Ask before approaching any dog that is not yours, including on walks or at the park.
- Close gates and doors behind you, every time.
Supervision and safe spaces
Young children and dogs should always be supervised by an adult, even when the dog is gentle and familiar. Active supervision means watching, not just being in the house. When you cannot watch closely, use a gate, crate or separate room to give everyone a break.
Give your dog a retreat the kids know is off-limits. A crate, bed or quiet room where the dog can rest undisturbed helps prevent many problems.
Good jobs for kids
Kids can be great helpers when the tasks match their age and the adults stay involved:
- Filling the water bowl and checking it during hot afternoons.
- Helping with short, supervised training sessions using treats.
- Setting up a frozen treat or a food puzzle.
- Brushing the dog gently, with an adult nearby.
- Helping check that the dog’s collar and ID tag are on before walks.
Praise kids when they follow the rules and treat the dog kindly. Children learn a great deal from watching how adults handle the family dog, so model the calm, patient behavior you want to see. Older kids may be ready to walk the dog, depending on the dog’s size and manners and the child’s maturity. Walk together first, and talk about summer rules such as testing pavement, carrying water and turning back early when it is hot. With a little structure, summer can be the season that turns kids and dogs into true best friends.
