Late spring and summer often bring visits to family and friends, whether for a graduation, a holiday weekend or a long-awaited reunion. Bringing your dog along can make the trip more enjoyable, but staying in someone else’s home with a dog takes some planning. A considerate approach helps make sure you and your dog are invited back.
Always Ask First
Never assume a dog is welcome. Ask your hosts well before the trip, and be ready for a no. Some people have allergies, other pets, young children, new furniture or simply prefer not to host dogs. If your hosts agree, ask about any house rules, such as rooms that are off-limits or whether dogs are allowed on furniture.
If you are unsure whether the visit will work for your dog, consider a nearby dog-friendly hotel or a trusted pet sitter at home instead.
Think About Other Pets and People
If your hosts have pets, plan introductions carefully. Dogs usually do best meeting on neutral ground, such as a walk, before coming into the house together. Keep early interactions short and supervised. Separate food bowls, toys and chews to avoid tension. If the host has cats, keep your dog leashed in the house at first and give the cats safe places to retreat.
Be mindful of children, older adults and anyone who is nervous around dogs. Not everyone wants a dog jumping up or licking them.
Pack Everything and Keep the Routine
A good houseguest arrives prepared, so your hosts do not have to provide anything.
- Food, bowls and treats
- A bed, crate or blanket for your dog to sleep on
- A sheet or blanket to cover furniture if dogs are allowed on it
- Leash, collar with current ID tag and harness
- Waste bags and cleanup supplies, including an enzyme cleaner for accidents
- Toys and chews to keep your dog occupied
- Towels for wet or muddy paws
Once you arrive, try to keep your dog’s usual routine for meals, walks and bedtime. A predictable schedule helps dogs settle in new places. Supervise your dog closely, especially in the first day or two. Even dogs who are perfectly house-trained may mark or have an accident in an unfamiliar home.
Do not leave your dog alone in the house unless your hosts are comfortable with it and your dog can handle it. If you do need to step out, crating may be the safest choice for some dogs.
Hazards in Someone Else’s Home
Your hosts’ home may not be dog-proofed. Look for:
- Medications on counters or nightstands
- Food left within reach
- Toxic plants
- Open pools or gates
- Small items that could be swallowed
Check the yard fence before letting your dog out, and keep your dog on leash in unfenced areas.
Leave It Better Than You Found It
Before you leave, vacuum dog hair, clean up any messes, wash bedding your dog used if appropriate and thank your hosts. A small thank-you gift is always a nice touch. Being a thoughtful guest helps make the next invitation easy, for both you and your dog.
